Atmabodha Queries

Being a Grahastha and living amidst family and relatives, what practices one should follow; to be a Mumukshu and follow and practice the teachings of our scriptures.

How does one keep the focus and not get involved in day to day nitty-gritties of relationship challenges posed by the ego clashes between family members.

We focus on ourself and we try not to react. Helps. By doing our duty rightfully, gives peace.

I also face the same problem since we forget the teachings.

I feel I need to work on it more to get in depth of it. Once vedant philosophy understood, thoughts should reduce and we should let go the things by ignoring and not reacting, I feel.

The teachings of Vedanta is easily and aptly forgotten by us and we do react to others in family as our ego , the imposter i behaves and starts the so called ” problem ” in the family .
If one understands it is NOT my true nature ..Self ..but false i that is reacting then one does not do or behave the way he is doing or behaving and the other person also at least at that time quietens.
If that happens every time the so called problems become lesser and finally vanish .
This wise teaching of Vedanta goes a long way to have peaceful and fruitful families in our society .

The teachings of Vedanta is easily and aptly forgotten by us and we do react to others in family as our ego , the imposter i behaves and starts the so called ” problem ” in the family .
If one understands it is NOT my true nature ..Self ..but false i that is reacting then one does not do or behave the way he is doing or behaving and the other person also at least at that time quietens.
If that happens every time the so called problems become lesser and finally vanish .
This wise teaching of Vedanta goes a long way to have peaceful and fruitful families in our society .

I think we should concentrate more on attaining the fourfold qualifications slowly along with the study of vedanta. Even if one feels that he understood all the teaching, it may be superficial.Only by attaining the qualifications, knowledge become a living reality. In my humble way, i try to observe my mind as far as possible and try to ignore unwanted thoughts. Also try to do my prayers regularly.

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I try seeing what is the common factor between others and me, for really we have been learning that there is no difference between others and me.
When I do this, I am grounded. Seeing me grounded, even in my silence or not being very vocal, this is the message supposedly taken by the one who initially reacted. Others reacting or not does not matter as much as whether I have responded instead of reacting. Others are anyways our mirrors. So its an opportunity in learning to connect within. Maintaining mundane routines is important in so far that it acts as a buffer.